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Friday, August 7, 2009

LOVE

love?? what is love ? some of us don't even know what love is and we say it to random people everyday.love, there is no love. there's only people who hurt you, break your heart, and make you think that they are in love with you.when honestly they were just trying to use or change you to make you into this perfect little person that they have pictured in their tiny little head and if that doesn't work they move on to the next chick who would give them everything that they could possibly want and have.Love, Everyone in the world knows about it. people talk about meeting their soul mate and spending the rest of their life with them. Some people hate love because they have been hurt so many times that they have decided to give up and hate on it.Others tend to turn bisexual or lesbian. Love is one thing that makes the world go round and it is also something that makes some people in the world do the most stupidest thing just because they think that they love or are in love with someone. Love, We all make mistakes when it comes down to it. No body is perfect. we live and learn from our experience and the things we do.Sometimes people don't learn the first time that they are hurt by someone.it usually takes them a couple of tries to learn that they deserve way better than someone who lies, cheat, ignores their call, and treats them like shit.Love, Some people find true happiness and others don't. People who usually don't find happiness end up living with their parents or living on their own with a couple of cats or dogs. some females think that if a guy hits them so many times and he apologizes for it that he truly loves them and wouldn't do it again. Well news flash, if he hits you once he surely will again and the next time it happens, you may end up dead and your family having to look for you. love doesn't hurt,so females don't stay with any guy who abuses you. If a guy abuses a girl that means that he is a weak ass dude that obviously has mental issues and isn't a man. Love, it's what we have. We go through the same routine, trying to find that one special person that we might eventually spend the rest of our life with or call our boyfriends. We get hurt by the people that we go out with and when the new person comes along we try and compare the new guy to the old one thinking that they will do the same thing that the old guy did to us and we end up missing out on someone really great and special. Females are built with the same structures and sometimes the same personalities.We are all looking for the same thing in a guy/man. We want someone who loves us for us, wouldn't change a single thing about us, can cook, educated, makes us laugh, can keep a good convo., has a job, his own car, his own house, doesn't live with his parents, and knows how to cater to us cause we surely will do the same thing. Guys, They tell you things that they think that you wanna hear, some of them are well educated, has a job,some of them cheat and others are faithful to the female that they are with, some of them lie to you like there's no tomorrow and others are too scared of losing the love of their life so they will fall under pressure when their chick asks them a question. Some guys can't live without sex, that if they aren't getting any from their girlfriend/ partner they will find some chick who will give it up to them in a minute without them having to work for it. Love is love. We work so hard on building up a relationship with someone else thinking that one day that he will end up asking us to marry them until one day they come out of no where and scatter your world by telling you honey, sweet peas, I think this isn't working out for the both of us, it's not you it's me, Let's not make it any harder than it is and move on with our life. When they say that, it makes you wonder why they are coming out right now and telling you this? why couldn't they have told you this in the beginning instead of making you waste your time on them knowing that they wouldn't stay long.

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