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Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Parents

Parents, What can I say
We have a love and hate relationship with them.
When we are little they tell us what to wear, what to do and how to act.
And We all know that as little kids we hated them so much that we were praying to get out of that house or for them to shut up and let us live our life.
Parents, they were young ones they know how life is and they only want the best for us. Some of them will go to the extreme to make sure that their kids have the best.
Some parents are so stuck with back in the day way that they still think that they are still living in the old days and not the modern age.
Parents want their kids to grow up and become a doctor, lawyers and nurses but the reality is as a kid we try so hard to impress/ make our parents so proud of us that we end us crashing in the long run. We love our parents but we can't become something that they want us to be. One thing i don't get is why do parents push their kids so much to do things that they want,knowing that their children isn't happy with it. Why Couldn't they accomplish the things that they are telling their kids to become?some of us get told what to do by everyone that when we get older we lose sight of who we really are, we act like little kids that people tell us to grow up.Some parents are so strict with their kids that they are too scared to talk back, leave the house, weak- minded, and prefer not to have any friends so that they don't get in to argument or drama. Some kids end up rebelling against their parents, moving out and being independent, and cutting their parents/ family completely out of their life. some people consider suicide, thinking that the best way to leave the whole controlling you, treating you like a maid and not like a human -being would be perfect and you will no longer have to deal with everything and you wouldn't hear people nagging you, telling you to cook, clean the whole house up every single day knowing that there are other people who live in the same house as you but they are too lazy to do anything.Some times we have parents and siblings who try to play mind tricks on you thinking that your dumb and since they are older than you they can control you and tell you what to do. Parents and siblings gotta learn that your getting older and that you will make mistakes as you get older and they have to learn to let you go and trust you instead of using all of your past and mistakes against whenever your arguing or talking to them.

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