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Friday, August 21, 2009

TRUST

A lot of people in the world have a hard time with this and I'm one of them. Trust isn't something you give out to someone. Its something that you have to earn from people. There are too many different kind of trust in the world. it's hard to trust anybody in the world. The first people that we see when we get in to this world are the first people that we trust. Trust, it's something people has never learned how to do before because they have had people talk mess about them,and seen how others betray their friends so easily that they can do that to them in a heart beat.Never really trusted anyone before because every time that I tried they showed me a reason not to.Trust is important in life. Without out love, family or trust where would you be at. we hold back a lot of things because people talk too much. we put up a wall so that we don't get hurt by others. A lot of people are afraid to trust others so they keep everything to themselves and not tell a soul. you can't really trust anyone in this world but yourself because everybody eventually leaves you. We some times learn to trust people but when it all fails its hard for us to build up a new one and trust them.When old friendships come back we can never trust them because we have flash backs of everything good and bad that we've been through and it gets us thinking whether or not we can be able to fully trust that person again. After seeing how they were when you guys weren't friends shows you that you can forgive but you can never forget or trust them. People don't wanna reconcile their old friendships because they don't wanna get hurt for the second time again. Trust ,its something that we work on everyday with people, to figure out whether or not we can tell them anything and if they are willing to keep it to themselves and not spread it around like a little disease. Trusting someone is like giving a part of you away that you will never get back no matter how badly you want it back.Trust isn't the most easiest thing in the world but some day we will find someone that we can trust that would be there for us when the time is right.

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Respect

In the bible it says treat others the way you want to be treat but my version of it is respect others the way you want to be respected. if you disrespect someone badly you get that in return.This word "respect", it's only 7 letters but why does it mean so much to us. parents want us to respect them and our siblings but why show respect to your siblings when they don't show it back to you? Respect we show it to our elders and to people who we don't know. When people disrespect us we are quick to attack them back because it's in our blood to. People say that they treat you the same way that they wanna be treated but how come that becomes a lie. We get this little set of rules as kids to respect people but how come people never gave us a set of rules to disrespect people when they disrespect us. You can make 10 sentences with using the word respect that's how popular the word is today and forever will be.We are taught to respect certain things in life and certain people. By giving respect, we hope to gain self-respect and through self-respect, we gain the respect of others. Self-respect is one of the qualities people stress and try to nurture. Once you lose your self-respect, you just go down. Respect has different meanings and different sayings to it. Men and women are respectable only if they respect you in return.Only those who respect the personality of others can be in real use to them.If one doesn't respect oneself one can have neither love nor respect for others.Respect for ones parents is the highest duty of civil life unless the parents is being a completely jerk face to you.

Quote about life by Benjamin Franklin
The best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness; to an opponent, tolerance; to a friend, your heart; to your child, a good example; to a father, deference; to your mother, conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself, respect; to all men, charity.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

High school sweet heart

Many people get one of those.They are like your childhood friend who knows everything and detail about you but the only difference is that you guys actually go out for a really long time.some high school sweet hearts don't usually last when they are young so when they get older they tend to wanna reconcile the old relationship.some high school sweet hearts end up getting married and having kids. while some get married, have kids and later on get divorce.They are the one who knows you best besides your family members. They are there for you through your ups and downs and are willing to do anything for you in a heartbeat if you ask them to. Although some of them maybe a little pesky , they will always remind you why you two fell in love in the first place.There are way too many chemistry and connection there to ruin or for anyone to try and get in between it.They are your best friend. You can trust them and tell them anything in the world including your deep dark secrets.They are fun to hang around with and talk to. They loved you since high school and they will love you until you two both grow old together.They are your first love,real relationship and sometimes they are the people that you lose it to.They never go away and if they do they always come back to you.There are way too many memories of both people to ever let go.You love them unconditionally and will forgive them no matter what happens and if they cheat on you and leave you for someone else and then come back to you saying that they miss you, sorry, that they couldn't stop thinking about you, and then they start talking about the good old times and how cute you guys looked back then and now. Take them back for the second time they might leave and cheat on you again for someone else. so before you decide taking you high school love back remember the good and bad and talk to them so you don't get hurt for the second time.

Monday, August 17, 2009

"Relationships"

There comes a time in our life when we start liking boys and thinking that they are cute. As kids we always thought that boys had cooties and boy always thought that girls had cooties. We grow up realizing that both boys and girls need each other in order to survive in this world. We get used to seeing guy's everywhere we go that we view it as human nature. We get hit on and told so many times how hot and cute that we are that it starts to get annoying as we get older.We know that we are cute. We live in our own body and we see ourselves every single day and hearing it from others makes us more annoyed and irritated than ever. When we get to a certain age we start liking boys and eventually we start calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend. Bf and GF turn in to husband and wife when both couples are truly sure about their feelings for each other and know that they are ready to move to the next step and have kids and live together. Marriage is serious. It means that you are ready to give up your entire single life, meeting new girls , sleeping with whoever you want for that one special person that you truly care about and you can't live without. Relationships are always complicated at times. So we try our best to make it work. there are people in the world who promise their partner the world and some time don't deliver on it. Some people break their promise by cheating on their partners with a lot of females that they end up breaking up and getting back together. There are some people in the world who their partner have cheated on them so many times that they end up forgiving them a lot and the other leaves them for some one else. No matter how many times you forgive a cheater they will always do it again and leave you for someone else who is way better, and good looking than you. Some relationships in the world doesn't last and some do. It takes some people so many tries to find that right person for us. Why is it that every single time that our partner breaks up with us we tend to be sad about it , cry over it, wonder what went wrong in the relationship and if it was really you that caused the break up? we go through relationships and break-ups so many times that you think by now we would be used to it and woman and man up about it and move on to the next person.Reality is that each year we get older the feelings for someone else deepens and the pain of the break - up worsen. There are some people in the world who can't sleep, or eat because the broke up or got in an argument with their partner. when people fight with their partners , the girls are the ones who worry the most about it. They go through every single thing that both people said to see where they went wrong and where the other person went wrong so that they can later on fix it and get back together.Boys when they get out of a relationship they are happy. they feel free and happy to get their single life back so that they can have fun. They don't give a flying chicken whether your hurt they would move on with their life like you were never there and you never existed to them. Relationships are based on truths not lies. Cheaters sometimes get caught by their partners and some of them have been cheating for so long that they have mastered the game and think that they will never be caught.when cheaters are confronted they tend to lie about it, play it off, try and find a way to blame it on their girl, and sometimes they will come clean about it and tell you the truth.When we are in a relationship we wanna prove to the person that we are with that we love them by doing anything that they want and giving them whatever their hearts desires.

TEETH

We start growing out our teeth at the age of one. Teeth, everybody is born with one of them.Some teeth are perfect and some aren't. As kids with grow up with messed up teeth and sometimes good teeth and as we get older our teeth chooses to fix itself without the help of the dentist. As babies our parents took care of our teeth. They showed us the proper skills to take care of our teeth so that when we get older we can do it ourselves. We go through a lot of process and money to make our teeth perfect when it ends up messing up again. smoking and drinking leads to you losing your teeth or making them yellow when you get older. There are dentist in the world who would love to fix your teeth for a small price.Dentist are the ones who take care of everybody's teeth. They are the ones who get to look into your teeth and tell you what's wrong with it and what they can do for you so that your teeth can be better looking. Some dentist tend to mess up your teeth so that you can come back to them and they can bleed you dry. Braces are just one of the things that dentist put on you so straighten your teeth. braces sometimes lasts forever and sometimes it doesn't. When we smile people first see our teeth and if it isn't straight or good looking it can be a turn off for others. Bad breathes are everyone's worst enemies. We are worried about it every time. Some people are so worried about it that they will run to the store and buy about 45 packs of gum. one for each time that they think their breath smells. Chewing gum a lot does ruin your teeth. Companies make a lot of money from products involving putting in your mouth.