He's not interested in you.

I'm the type of woman who likes to study people and their movement. I like to study people and observe them before i talk to them or bother saying hi. All my friends say that I'm a big weirdo for studying people but i only do it because i want to be sure that the person i talk to is safe and isn't some kind of creep or stalker.When i think a guy/man is cute i tend to hit them up first or sometimes they hit me up to talk and make a convo. with them and see how it goes and where it will lead to. Guys are way more complicated than females.They like to play as much games as we females do but theirs are even worst. They have a wall and they always have their guard up so they don't get hurt. some men play girls like toys even when they have the right one in their life.All my life I've been played, cheated on, lied to by guys and I'll always ask myself why is this happening to me? why can't i find one good guy who would loves me for me and not want other females? i even asked myself how come i didn't see the signs when it was right there in my face. Then it hit me and as i got older i started to realize the games guys play on females, and how they can lie to you in your face telling you how much they care for you and then next minute you see them telling another chick the same bullshit. here's some ways to tell that he really isn't interested in you at all.

1.The conversations are short and his communications lessens. If he has little/nothing to say on a consistent basis.
2. You ask him out during special occasions or holidays and he tells you that he's unavailable or can't make it and makes up a stupid excuse
3. He never hits you up
4. He doesn't bother checking up on you
5.He stops calling you.
6.You send him a text message,or aim and hours maybe even a day later he still hasn't responded, or he waits hours or a day later to respond: You are an afterthought. if he really wanted to be with you or get to know you he would respond right away in a heart beat.
7. If he calls you at 11 pm or later you're just a booty call and all he wants is sex. he's really not interested in much more.
8.If he constantly calls you boo, cutie, hot and never seem to remember your name then he's not interested.
9.if you hear him say i'm no good at relationships or something like that it means that he has no intentions of being in a relationship with you.
10.If he calls you out of nowhere. it means that he is bored and he is lonely and knows that you'll fill the gap especially when everyone else he called were too busy for to answer his calls.
11.He does not encourage conversation or volunteers anything about himself. He maintains his distance from you.
12.he is ignoring you or disrespects you by putting down your values, thoughts and ideas, he's just not interested in you or in a relationship with you.
13.He declines a social invitation from you and never wants to do a rain check.
14.A guy stands you up, blows you off or shows up late, he does not have respect for your time and plans. Bottom line, he does not respect you and does not care whether or not you are in his life.
15.He's never available on the weekends or occasions that are reserved as date nights, know you're just a passing phase or flavor of the moment.
16.is too busy to see you during daylight hours but has time to swing by for a quick hook up
17.He never wants to introduce you to his family members or his friends
18.he never calls you back the same day and never answers his phone when you call.
19.He blocks you from his buddy list and doesn't respond to your emails
20.he encourages you to date others and not wait around for him, it's because he does not see a future with you and wants to be free to date others as well.
21. He never invites you over to his place.
22.He Never Discusses Your Future
23.You are constantly paying for the bills every time you two go out and he never wants to pay.He is only interested in what he can get out of you
24.He stops calling, changes his phone number, the visits become less and less frequent.